- Doubt & Fear
- Guilt & Unworthiness
- Inferiority & Undeservingness
Emotional habits are learned. We can unlearn bad emotions.
Law of Cause and Effect.
Find someone who has achieved the effect you want. Study what they did and then repeat it.
Law of Belief
Whatever you believe with feeling becomes reality.
Belief means you will deliberately ignore things that don’t fit with your beliefs.
Problem is if you have irrational / incorrect / damaging / beliefs…
Problem: Self limiting beliefs
Winners recall their previous success experiences.
Non-winners recall their previous failures.
Law of Correspondence
As within, so without
You become what you think about most of the time.
Change your thinking, change your life.
Each of us unique, individual
Self concept for different areas of life
Money Self concept: 10% above or below
Earn more: Throw-away behaviours.
Earn less: Scrambling behaviours to get income back up.
The great enemy of human success is the comfort zone.
Overall Self Concept
- Self ideal: Values, Ideals, Hopes, Dream (clearer the better)
- Self Image – Inner mirror
- Self Esteem. Emotional part of personality. “The energy source”. How much you like yourself.
Act consistent with self concept self esteem goes up.
Say “I like myself.”
Self efficacy feeds self esteem.
Cognitive dissonance can occur when you say “I like myself” because it conflicts with our negative self image (garbage).